wecanalldobetter:

queen-of-apricity:

whataterribleidea-doit:

thylovelylionheart:

I absolutely hate it when people call sex a need. “I have needs” or “he has specific needs”—no, you have wants. Sex is a desire, not a need; otherwise nuns and monks would’ve died from practicing celibacy. And 99% of the time that I see sex being called a need, it’s to justify cheating.

So can we please stop disillusioning ourselves and stop calling sex a need

It’s also used to justify coercing long term partners into having sex they don’t want because they frame it as a need that partners are required to provide

If you don’t want to have sex, don’t fall for this shit. They have a hand, they can buy toys, hell they could even ask for an open relationship.

At no point or in any capacity is another person entitled to your body